I'm being helpless!!!!

Though i have been offered by three companies, i blindly rejected them due to long service agreement..
I don't understand when i will clear my life and get settled..
I'm not in an urgent state, but seriously i couldn't help myself to keep me down by reading the updates posted by my so-called friends in Facebook ..
Even if i get a job of my own wish and choice, i would never post it anywhere or i would never establish it except some of my close mates or true friends who had helped with true heart in the past!!
I never say anything wrong about anybody and this is my damn blogspot and i have the right to speak..
Even some told that they will help me by some reference, but no word from anybody..